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		<title>A Perspective Rarely Considered</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Nov 2009 05:56:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tim Jack</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Cat and Dog Theology by Bob Sjogren and Gerald Robison&#160; is an unusual look at American Christians and their theology. Basically, there are those who are like dogs who serve the master; and others more like cats, who think they are the master. The authors nuance and develop the argument a lot more, but it [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=gnarlypop.wordpress.com&blog=257761&post=781&subd=gnarlypop&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><br /><p><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Cat-Dog-Theology-Rethinking-Relationship/dp/1884543170/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1257486098&amp;sr=8-1" target="_blank">Cat and Dog Theology by Bob Sjogren and Gerald Robison</a>&#160; is an unusual look at American Christians and their theology. Basically, there are those who are like dogs who serve the master; and others more like cats, who think they are the master. The authors nuance and develop the argument a lot more, but it works. </p>
<p>The book leads to some interesting considerations, rarely considered in most circles in American Christianity:<a href="http://gnarlypop.files.wordpress.com/2009/11/p1010283.jpg"><img style="display:inline;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;border-width:0;" title="P1010283" border="0" alt="P1010283" align="right" src="http://gnarlypop.files.wordpress.com/2009/11/p1010283_thumb.jpg?w=244&#038;h=202" width="244" height="202" /></a></p>
<blockquote><p>Cats, like the fastest horse at the end of a race, expect to be in the winner’s circle. They always relate to the major character; they never relate to the minor characters—those aren’t the famous ones. They want and expect life to be safe, soft, easy, comfortable, secure, and they expect to always come out on the top. They believe that’s just what God wants for all of us. </p>
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<p>As an illustration, they point to the story of Job. Cats really love the story and identify with Job, being faithful, and having the blessings of God in the end. Sure he goes through hell on earth, but in the end he the one blessed.</p>
<p>But what about Job’s children? Were they not in the plan and purpose of God? What can we learn from them? </p>
<blockquote><p>The tough question needs to be asked, Did God love Job’s kids as much as Job? The obvious answer is yes. Did God have a plan for their lives? Not as obvious, but the same answer still stands, yes.</p>
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<p>The authors then point us to a convicting conclusion:</p>
<blockquote><p>You see, Cats only focus on God’s blessing while on earth. “Where are the blessings in these seventy years that I’m alive?” they ask. Dogs realize that their lives can be in ruins for those seventy or so years, and eternity is where the Lord’s glory is greatly revealed in their lives. The apostle Paul writes, “For our light and momentary troubles are achieving for us an eternal glory that far outweighs them all: (2 Corinthians 4:17). Therefore, relating to Job’s kids is just as viable as relating to Job. Are there lessons outside the winner’s circle in other passages?</p>
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		<title>A Hard Place to Share Jesus</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Oct 2009 22:16:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tim Jack</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Not to be an alarmist, but this is surprising! It is hard to believe that this is happening in England. I wonder how long until we have similar laws in the USA. 
Christians persecuted in England
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><br /><p>Not to be an alarmist, but this is surprising! It is hard to believe that this is happening in England. I wonder how long until we have similar laws in the USA. </p>
<p><a href="http://www.tangle.com/view_video?viewkey=2c15b61faed98ef85771&amp;utm_source=newsletter1023&amp;utm_medium=email&amp;utm_campaign=weeklytopvideos" target="_blank">Christians persecuted in England</a></p>
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		<title>The Shepherd Becomes a Showman</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Oct 2009 17:43:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tim Jack</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Skye Jethani notes that there is a somewhat outspoken encouragement for church leaders to “embrace entertainment.” Apparently the the thought is that this approach will open doors that will ultimately lead to life transformation. Jethani takes issue with this in his current book.
“These pastors, representative of so many contemporary Christians, believe that God changes lives [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=gnarlypop.wordpress.com&blog=257761&post=776&subd=gnarlypop&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><br /><p><a href="http://www.skyejethani.com/about/" target="_blank">Skye Jethani</a> notes that there is a somewhat outspoken encouragement for church leaders to “embrace entertainment.” Apparently the the thought is that this approach will open doors that will ultimately lead to life transformation. Jethani takes issue with this in his current book.</p>
<blockquote><p>“These pastors, representative of so many contemporary Christians, believe that God changes lives through the commoditization and consumption of experiences. If our worship gatherings are energetic, stimulating, and exciting enough then people will attend, receive what’s being communicated, and be spiritually transformed. The justification for this approach is simple – people won’t come to a church that’s boring. And what qualifies as boring is defined by our consumer/experience economy. … In Consumer Christianity, the shepherd becomes a showman.” – <a href="http://astore.amazon.com/musofarannat-20/detail/0310283752" target="_blank">The Divine Commodity</a>, p. 75.</p>
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<p>This book, surprisingly published by Zondervan, clearly articulates a significant weakness in many American churches. The complaint about the consumerization of the church is not new (e.g., John MacArthur made that point years ago); but Jethani’s approach is creative and compelling. Using paintings by Vincent Van Gogh he provokes some deep thinking. </p>
<p>I’ve been thinking of posting several of Jethani’s insights, but realized that his argument is best served by reading it whole. You even get a meaningful and surprising lesson in Art! His thoughts on the Lord’s Table (communion) are insightful; his challenge about seeking a place to be comfortable are convicting. </p>
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		<title>Consumer Alienation</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Oct 2009 05:18:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tim Jack</dc:creator>
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Alienation has conditioned consumers, including the religious variety to believe context is irrelevant. Value is found only in something’s immediate usefulness, in its ability to satisfy our immediate desire. As a result we have alienated God from the larger story of Scripture that informs us of his character and attributes. At the same [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=gnarlypop.wordpress.com&blog=257761&post=775&subd=gnarlypop&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
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<blockquote><p><font>Alienation has conditioned consumers, including the religious variety to believe context is irrelevant. Value is found only in something’s immediate usefulness, in its ability to satisfy our immediate desire. As a result we have alienated God from the larger story of Scripture that informs us of his character and attributes. At the same time that we are flippantly producing more words about God, we are paradoxically less interested in the words he has spoken about himself. Why bother reading what happened long ago in a land far away? Instead, just boil the story down to three applications on a PowerPoint Slide.</font></p>
<p><font>This is the view of God a consumer culture feeds to our imaginations—a controllable and convenient deity devoid of any relevant context. But before this false god can be replaced in our minds it must first be erased, <font color="#ff0000">shattered by an encounter with the true God beyond our grasp. </font></font></p>
<p align="right">From <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Divine-Commodity-Discovering-Consumer-Christianity/dp/0310283752/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1255149105&amp;sr=8-1" target="_blank">The Divine Commodity by Skye Jethani</a> (emphasis mine). </p>
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<p>OK. One comment. We must preach, teach, proclaim, and live, the truth of the true God. It is more powerful than trying to rail against the false ones. </p>
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		<title>Comfortable?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Oct 2009 04:37:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[No one can follow God and be comfortable for long (p. 43) – Mike Yaconelli, Messy Spirituality

If you don’t believe it, then you might not be following God all that closely. Yes, God promises to supply all our needs, but that doesn’t mean it will be easy or pleasant; but it will be worth it. [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=gnarlypop.wordpress.com&blog=257761&post=774&subd=gnarlypop&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
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<p>If you don’t believe it, then you might not be following God all that closely. Yes, God promises to supply all our needs, but that doesn’t mean it will be easy or pleasant; but it will be worth it. </p>
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		<title>Enjoying the Joy</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Oct 2009 01:02:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[“Love is what exists between people who find their joy in each other’s joy.” – Tullian Tchividjian, Unfashionable.

I’m sure that I’ve come across this concept in other writings, but Tchividjian puts it concisely and clearly. Mrs. Random and I have talked about this many times. Sorry to say I’ve not been as good at this [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=gnarlypop.wordpress.com&blog=257761&post=773&subd=gnarlypop&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><br /><blockquote><p>“Love is what exists between people who find their joy in each other’s joy.” – Tullian Tchividjian, <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Unfashionable-Making-Difference-World-Different/dp/1601420854/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1254354615&amp;sr=8-1" target="_blank">Unfashionable</a>.</p>
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<p>I’m sure that I’ve come across this concept in other writings, but Tchividjian puts it concisely and clearly. Mrs. Random and I have talked about this many times. Sorry to say I’ve not been as good at this as she is, but we try. It really isn’t too hard when we keep our eyes off of ourselves and our needs, wants and desires. OK. I guess it can be difficult since it is so easy to find myself looking out for me. Yet when I focus on Linda or others and find ways to foster her joy even in little things it is wonderful – and I think I might enjoy her joy more than she does! I’m pretty sure that the feeling is mutual. It doesn’t even have to be something big. A favorite chocolate bar, or a stop at a quilt store, may bring some to the greatest smiles from her. I can’t speak for her, but she seems to really enjoy it whenever I enjoy something. Which means I enjoy her joy at my joy which brings her more joy which means I … wow! </p>
<p>Imagine if we practiced this, not only with our spouses, but with our friends – actually all those whom God has called us to love. What if we didn’t even have to think about it – that it was just who we were? I’d like to hope that I could love like that. It would be a good thing for a pastor! </p>
<p>Of course there is a danger of getting self-centered in this. When I enjoy bringing delight to my wife, or a happy moment to a friend, or something fun to my kids or grandkids because <strong><font color="#ff0000">I</font></strong> feel good or want the focus to be on <strong><font color="#ff0000">me</font></strong>, I selfishly undermine the “gift” – not to mention&#160; my integrity. I think I cheapen the relationship as well. Thank God for grace! </p>
<p>The thought that blows me away most is that God, as ultimate lover, takes joy in my joy. It amazes me that I should matter that much. This too is grace!</p>
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		<title>Chimes</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 27 Sep 2009 06:32:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tim Jack</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Wind chimes have not really been one of my favorite things. At least most of them. I guess I’ve been around some poorly made, poorly tuned, chimes that are often grating and annoying, rather than peaceful and soothing. 
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><br /><p>Wind chimes have not really been one of my favorite things. At least most of them. I guess I’ve been around some poorly made, poorly tuned, chimes that are often grating and annoying, rather than peaceful and soothing. </p>
<p>So, a few months ago, when I arrived at SonScape for a week-long retreat I was somewhat dismayed to note that there was a wind chime on just outside the rear door to our suite. I wondered if there would be a way to “disable” it or even remove it, but then forgot about that as I enjoyed the spectacular view of Pike’s Peak and took note of the wonderful accommodations that were supplied.&#160; The air was absolutely still so the chimes were quiet and I gave them no further thought. In fact, I didn’t notice them again for three full days. </p>
<p>In the midst of a time of reflection and prayer, seeking God’s direction and insight, I expressed my frustration that God seemed rather silent and was failing to make himself known. Linda and I were being very quiet in a setting created for solitude when I noticed gentle, sonorous, music just at the edge of my consciousness – perfectly tuned wind chimes playing in a very gentle breeze. Unbidden, my thoughts seemed guided to the insight that God, like the chimes, is there all the time, he is often silent, and rarely makes much noise, and is often forgotten, but never forgets … and speaks gently and peacefully into the chaos of our lives … even if we don’t understand the words. </p>
<p>I began to hear the chimes more often, and missed them when they were silent. They became something of a metaphor reminding me God’s presence and his peace. I noted several themes within the metaphor that mean much to me – including the recognition that chimes speak loudest in a storm. </p>
<p>So, I came home and promptly bought some chimes to hang outside my office at home. And every so often a gentle breeze has come up and the music begins. I’ll notice it after a while and smile at the reminder that God is there and he is not silent. </p>
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		<title>While I Was Surfing</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Sep 2009 05:17:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tim Jack</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[While on a brief vacation last week, we spent some time on the beach at Corona del Mar in Southern California. I didn’t go surfing or even swim (still not sure I trust my shoulder to that stress yet). I did do some web surfing though (not on the beach – I just thought that [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=gnarlypop.wordpress.com&blog=257761&post=770&subd=gnarlypop&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><br /><p>While on a brief vacation last week, we spent some time on the beach at Corona del Mar in Southern California. I didn’t go surfing or even swim (still not sure I trust my shoulder to that stress yet). I did do some web surfing though (not on the beach – I just thought that made a nice segue).  Since I haven’t done the random link thing for a while, and haven’t posted anything for a week, it sure seems like a good time to share some of the waves … links I found.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.stumbleupon.com/s/#1upXOa/www.shambles.net/worldclock/worldclock.swf/" target="_blank">This site</a> is pretty sobering. But it makes it here just because of the name behind it &#8211; <a href="http://www.poodwaddle.com" target="_blank">Poodwaddle.com</a>.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.phobiaguide.com//" target="_blank">Decide what you’re afraid of</a>. I may be Alliumphobic. Or Chorophobic. Maybe even Ophthalmophobic.</p>
<p><a href="http://balldroppings.com/js//" target="_blank">Balldroppings</a> is kind of addicting. Turn on the sound. Drive people crazy.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.stumbleupon.com/s/#1flwQb/bestiario.org/web/media/19/preview/index.php?id_proyecto=19/" target="_blank">This is just a little scary</a> – especially when alone.</p>
<p>Come <a href="http://www.freegongbutton.com/" target="_blank">here</a> when you need to make some noise or hit something.</p>
<p>How about a <a href="http://www.audiencesounds.com/" target="_blank">truly annoying site</a> – click a couple with the sound on and you’ll agree. It will drive your mates crazy.</p>
<p>Need a <a href="http://www.stumbleupon.com/s/#1AaE5v/leogeo.com/28_timebeat.htm/" target="_blank">new clock</a> for your computer. Turn on the sound for effect.</p>
<p><a href="http://gnarlypop.files.wordpress.com/2009/09/innoutburger.jpg"><img style="display:inline;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;border-width:0;" title="In-N-Out Burger" src="http://gnarlypop.files.wordpress.com/2009/09/innoutburger_thumb.jpg?w=262&#038;h=207" border="0" alt="In-N-Out Burger" width="262" height="207" align="left" /></a> My <a href="http://www.in-n-out.com/default.asp" target="_blank">favorite spot</a> to grab a bite. Fresh ingredients. Well run. Owned entirely by a young lady. <a href="http://www.amazon.com/N-Out-Burger-Behind-Counter-Fast-Food/dp/0061346713/ref=ed_oe_h" target="_blank">Read the book</a>. This place is run really well. Some great lessons for the church.</p>
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<p>Finally, you can learn to understand cats by looking into their brain <a href="http://www.stumbleupon.com/s/#6vzkrV/www.xmission.com/~emailbox/mapping.htm/" target="_blank">here</a>.</p>
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		<title>Writing in Books &#8211; Not a Sin</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Sep 2009 18:35:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tim Jack</dc:creator>
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The other day I was somewhat chastised by someone for highlighting, marking, and writing in my books. It makes them less saleable, and less valuable, and ruins something. I think this might have been something generational where books were a bit more rare, and expensive. So Challies’ extended quote from Adler was meaningful.&#160; False Reverence [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=gnarlypop.wordpress.com&blog=257761&post=767&subd=gnarlypop&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
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<p>The other day I was somewhat chastised by someone for highlighting, marking, and writing in my books. It makes them less saleable, and less valuable, and ruins something. I think this might have been something generational where books were a bit more rare, and expensive. So <a href="http://www.challies.com/archives/articles/quotes/false-reverence.php" target="_blank">Challies’ extended quote from Adler</a> was meaningful.&#160; <a href="http://www.challies.com/archives/articles/quotes/false-reverence.php" target="_blank">False Reverence</a> for books may prohibit us from truly possessing them. </p>
<p>Besides, most of my friends like to borrow my marked up books … something about not having to read everything that way. I’ve thought about getting a <a href="http://www.amazon.com/dp/B00154JDAI/?tag=mh0b-20&amp;hvadid=151849220&amp;ref=pd_sl_17kgocjd80_e" target="_blank">Kindle</a> but I don’t know if the screen would survive my pen instinctively jotting notes and underlines.&#160; </p>
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		<title>Are You Busy?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Sep 2009 00:40:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tim Jack</dc:creator>
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Are You Busy? is a convicting blog post by C. J. Maheney I recently came across. It probably made an impact as I wrestle with the changes I’ve had to make while in-between ministries. I used to be very, very busy with little down time. I now have lots of potential down time that I [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=gnarlypop.wordpress.com&blog=257761&post=766&subd=gnarlypop&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
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<p><a href="http://www.sovereigngraceministries.org/Blog/post/how-busyness-and-laziness-coexist-cj-mahaney.aspx">Are You Busy?</a> is a convicting blog post by C. J. Maheney I recently came across. It probably made an impact as I wrestle with the changes I’ve had to make while in-between ministries. I used to be very, very busy with little down time. I now have lots of potential down time that I have to fill with intention. At times I feel a bit lazy, but I think that I’m just busy with different things, with different meanings. This excerpt brings the point into challenging focus:</p>
<blockquote><p>But the realization that I could be simultaneously busy and lazy, that I could be a hectic sluggard, that my busyness was no immunity from laziness, became a life-altering and work-altering insight. What I learned is that:</p>
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<li>Busyness does not mean I am <em>diligent</em></li>
<li>Busyness does not mean I am <em>faithful</em></li>
<li>Busyness does not mean I am <em>fruitful</em></li>
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<p>Recognizing the sin of procrastination, and broadening the definition to include busyness, has made a significant alteration in my life. The sluggard can be busy—busy neglecting the most important work, and busy knocking out a to-do list filled with tasks of secondary importance. </p>
<p>When considering our schedules, we have endless options. But there are a few clear priorities and projects, derived from my God-assigned roles, that should occupy the majority of my time during a given week. And there are a thousand tasks of secondary importance that tempt us to devote a disproportionate amount of time to completing an endless to-do list. And if we are lazy, we will neglect the important for the urgent.</p>
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<p> Whether we have a job description or not, we each must be about the most important tasks God has called to accomplish. And sometime, I think, the important thing is to discover what God has called us to.</p>
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